Taming the Female Impostor (Print Book)

The Origin Story Behind the Resonance Clarity Framework™

A symbolic story. A leadership case study. A map of the human mind.  

First published in 2014, Taming the Female Impostor introduced a powerful narrative about three inner states that shape every leader’s confidence:

• The Incoherent Absorber Mind (formerly the Impostor Mind)
• The Protector-Defender Mind
• The Aligned Resonator Mind (formerly the Angelic Mind)

Through the story of three women—each representing one of these inner states—the book reveals how confidence collapses under pressure, how the mind becomes defensive, and how clarity returns when we rise above the noise.

Although written through the lens of women’s empowerment, the underlying pattern is universal.

Executives and leaders of all genders recognize themselves in these three states.

This book became the foundation of what is now the Resonance Clarity Framework™, the coaching system used by leaders, founders, and high‑performers around the world.

🌸 The Lotus: The Symbol That Connects the Book to the Framework

The lotus on the book cover was not chosen for aesthetics.

It was chosen for what it represents:

• A flower that grows in muddy water
• Yet remains untouched by the mud
• A symbol of the 7th chakra — pure awareness
• A reminder that clarity is possible even in chaos

This became the heart of the Lotus Leaf Principle™ in the Resonance Clarity Framework:

Life may be muddy, but nothing has to stick to you.

The lotus symbolizes the journey from:

• Incoherence → Protection → Resonance
• Self‑doubt → Boundaries → Clarity
• Absorption → Non‑attachment → Leadership

It is the bridge between the book’s story and the modern coaching system.

What You’ll Learn Inside the Book

1. Identify Incoherent Mind Patterns

Understand the inner voice that fuels self‑doubt, overthinking, and emotional absorption.

2. Recognize the Defender’s Strategies

See how overworking, people‑pleasing, perfectionism, and avoidance are protective responses—not personal flaws.

3. Activate the Protector Mind

Learn how to shift into the state that guards your clarity, strengthens your boundaries, and stabilizes your presence.

4. Return to the Aligned Resonator Mind

Reclaim the state of courage, truth, and inner authority.

5. Apply 15 Practical “Frequency Retuning” Tools

These tools help you lighten the emotional load, reset your inner state, and lead with steadiness at work and at home.

Why This Book Still Matters Today

The world is noisier and more reactive than ever.

Leaders are overwhelmed not because they lack intelligence, but because they lack clarity under pressure.

This book gives you:

• a relatable story
• a universal pattern
• a practical method
• a symbolic map of the mind
• a way to rise above chaos
• a foundation for the Resonance Clarity Framework

The book shows you that your struggles are not personal failures—they are predictable patterns of the mind.

And more importantly:

The mind can be transformed.

Who This Book Is For

• Women reclaiming their voice, confidence, and identity
• Leaders navigating pressure, burnout, or self‑doubt
• Executives seeking clarity and presence
• Anyone who feels “not enough” despite being highly capable
• Readers who want a story‑based approach to inner transformation
• Clients in the Resonance Mastery Coaching Program who want the origin story of the framework

The Bridge Between Story and System

Taming the Female Impostor is more than a book.

It is the origin story of a global coaching methodology.

The lotus on the cover symbolizes the entire journey:

You grow in the mud

You rise above the surface

You remain untouched by chaos

You return to clarity again and again

This is the promise of the book.

This is the promise of the Resonance Clarity Framework.

This is the promise of your own evolution.

Dr. John Gray

"With new insights, Dr. Vie unravels the root cause of the global female crises and provides powerful practical tools for health, happiness and vitality - all within a great adventure," ~Dr. John Gray, Author, Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus, San Francisco, 2014

"Finally! After millenniums of spiritual teachings primarily by and geared to men, teachings which have dismissed and often denigrated feminine wisdom and power, comes Dr. Vie's much needed guidance to help women cultivate and unleash their essential spirit. And just in time, so we wisely use balance feminine-masculine energy and co-create the healthy and harmonious evolution of humankind."~ Ellen, San Francisco.

Boris Verkhovsky, Performance Director, Cirque du Soleil, Montreal

"I have worked all of my professional life with high performance women, whether it was a National Team, a University varsity team or our leading entertainment company. Dr. Vie is certainly an elite, high performance person regardless of the field she chooses to endeavor in to! When my wife and I were introduced to Dr. Vie Superfoods in 2007, Dr. Vie's products stood out in its own category! I love the effect and impact, I love the format and taste! She is a fascinating person and now brings here in Taming The Female Impostor, a most interesting perspective and insightful wisdom for both men and women! A must read for all, including men!~ Boris Verkhovsky, Performance Director, Cirque du Soleil, Montreal

Lena McCallaNjee, New Jersey, USA

Every once in a while there comes along a book that captivates the mind and uplifts the soul. This is one of those books. In real life Dr. Vie has managed to maneuver through global cultures with ease and finesse. With the same level of sophistication, she weaves a tapestry of universality in her book. Each of us has the ability to rise above our circumstance, be it racism, sexism, environmental issues or cultural and religious biases. Each of us can choose to reject change and remain the same or embrace the change. This book will appeal to a wide range of audiences globally. This book is a winner.~Lena McCallaNjee, NJ, USA. Special Education Teacher, Teacher of the Year 2011-2012, Nominee of the 2014 Governor of the Year Award



WHAT ARE ATTENDEES OF LIVE EVENTS SAYING ABOUT THE BAG OF CODES? What's in your bag?

"I thoroughly enjoyed this book Taming The Female Impostor®. It's amazing how we look at life differently when things are pointed to us that we sort of already know but don't take the time to think about. Dr. Vie's "bag" concept (Bag of Codes) is brilliant!" ~Rihi 2015, South Africa.

The print edition is mailed to you from USA, Canada, and South Africa.